What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:09
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
What was something you did naughty with your cousin?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
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73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
What kind of lights would you like to use for your home decor?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
Why do some men love sucking cocks?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Why didn't my ex fight for our relationship? He gave up so easily.
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
How do you identify a woman player?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
Do you enjoy cheating on your spouse? If so, why?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
What are some cute stories with your crush?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
What is your favorite position? Why?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
39~ What are your love languages?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
Nothing too Serious
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
29- How superstitious are you?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Family Relation Age Play
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
The Ice Breaker Questions
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Any that are a turn off?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Have you ever? Care to Share?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
*** Questions About Me ***
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Any that are a turn off?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
Please share Did you stop?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
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15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
If yes, what?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
52~ What are your hobbies?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
If you win, what will you make them do?
How old are you? Male or Female?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
*** Random Questions ***
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
Would you read them together?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand